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This is short but my pocket notes are full and I need a new paper.
9/25 - Noah, wearing his Swiss tshirt and red shorts, "This is my hockey outfit. My hockey team is called Swiss Fire!"
In lieu of nursing for any length of time (which is very irritating when pregnant and seems to get more so each pregnancy) I will sing to Faith as we go to bed. Her favorite hymn is Holy Holy Holy and she will sing along with me, allternating pronunciation between "hohee" and "hodee". So sweet!
Can't remember the day. Jon overheard Jonathan talking to Noah as they were getting ready for bed. "Don't wear that kind of shirt to bed. You grow in the middle of the night and you might not be able to get it off!"
9/28 - Opening a letter from Grandma: Noah, "I know what it is: cool stuff!" It was some more Sunshine Math pages. Noah exclaimed, "I LOVE Sunshine Math!" Jonathan replied, rather reluctantly as if he didn't want to admit it, "Yeah, Sunshine Math is pretty fun."
I came across a hot pepper that I hadn't heard of before, and since it had a warning on it being really hot, I figured I had to buy it. Now that I've learned it is the hottest known pepper in the world, I have to wonder -- what am I ever going to do with it?
The cashier mentioned that she had done some research on it, and found that it was being used for weapons in India.
Sounds like the perfect thing to eat...
Inspired by an article in Family Fun magazine, I developed a fun motivator for bedtime cleanup that really works. Before, there would be lots of complaining, dilly-dallying and nagging. Now the house is clean every night before bed and the job is done quickly! Here's how it works.
We have a jelly jar to fill up with colorful glass gems (which we call "beads" though they have no holes). Each evening at clean up time, we set a timer for fifteen minutes. For every minute left on the timer (rounded to the next whole minute up) they get to put a bead in the jar. A bonus of five beads is awarded if the whole house is clean before we even start the timer (motivating clean up before the evening even arrives!). A penalty of three beads is subtracted if the parental inspection reveals that the house is not clean despite the boys' statement that it is.
The reward for a full jar of beads is a special treat selected by the boys. The most recent one was to watch a VeggieTales movie.
This works so well for our family. Now, even if it takes the whole fifteen minutes and they get no beads, the job is done in that short time - in the past sometimes it would take until they were falling into bed and still not be done, really. The past several days they have gotten most of their beads and even the bonus twice! The jar is now half full again though it was reset only a few days ago! The house is noticeably cleaner (ask my Mom who just visited!) I know I'm using a lot of exclamation points, but I am so happy that this is working out. Everyone benefits and it is turning out ot be really fun. (We even get some math in as Noah counts out the reward for the evening and Jonathan divides them as evenly as possible for the three kids to place in the jar.) (:
I'm definitely feeling the baby now! Movements are most noticeable when I am lying down.
9/14 - Jon had mentioned that the next time Jonathan got sneakers, they should have laces. Jonathan had never learned to tie his shoes because he never had tie shoes. At almost seven years old, we figured it was time. It took him an afternoon to get the hang of it and now he's an old pro.
9/17 - At a friend's house, Noah found a small pedal, no-training-wheels bike and successfully made a large circle without falling down!
9/18 - Despite our not being too into sports, Jonathan knows at least something about Pittsburgh. We were visiting our friends who live on Mt.Washington and the mom turned on the baseball game on TV to see when it ended so they could go up and watch the fireworks. Jonathan's comment, "The Pirates are winning?!? That's weird!"
Sometime in the middle of September, Faith added the /k/ sound to the end of "milk". Now we can distinguish between "more" and "milk"!
9/23 - Faith said "poke" sounding like "boke"
Faith hurt the pinky toe/right side of her right foot on the evening of 9/22 while running around. She continued to limp and cry about it until 3pm the next day. I considered calling the doctor, but she was walking on it without complaining that evening. She still needs to be careful of it because several times since then she has mildly re-injured it. It was rather strange to me to watch her crawl around after she has been walking so long.
9/24 - As I was falling asleep for my nap, I could hear Jonathan humming to himself - an eclectic mix of hymns, praise songs, Christmas carols, and the Imperial Death March.
Today, Noah asked me to check his shoes to make sure he put them on the right feet. When I told him they were not, he let out an exasperated sigh. He had tried really hard and still gotten it wrong. Poor guy. But I encouraged him that he'd get it soon.
8/31 - The boys were making octopuses out of their banana peels. Jonathan called his a "cinctopus". It had five legs. His reason, "Because uno, dos, tres..."
9/6 - Faith's second birthday! When you ask her how old she is, she will answer, "Dew!" She also answers that for what her name is, and other questions, so we have fun asking things like, "Faith, what's one plus one? What's four divided by two?" She opened presents in the morning and we had our church picnic in the afternoon/evening. It was a fun day for us all and she enjoyed all the festivities, singing, opening, blowing out, etc. But she only ate the frosting part of her cake.
This post is long overdue (I have two separate pocket papers kicking around) but as you may have noticed, we've been pretty busy around here. We are leaving soon for another vacation and so I really want to get these papers out of my pocket!
When Noah had his 4 year appointment (over the charts in height and weight, ears and eyes are good, everything is fine) the nurse called him "pal" and he has asked me to call him that several times since then.
We arrived at the Fitzkees' house on Thursday night, and Nick said we could stay as long as we wanted. We ended up extending our trip by a day and coming home on Tuesday, which was a good decision. I think we spent the right amount of time for the whole family to enjoy the sight-seeing.
We cooked bacon and pancakes (I found a nifty plastic pint jug in Walmart or somewhere that you simply pour water into the jug, shake it up, and pour it on the griddle) for breakfast, and then packed up and planned to meet for lunch at Great Falls, 15 miles away.
Heather went back to the store for bread and bandaids (I cut myself doing something, and Heather thought we might run out of bandaids) and also to a McDonalds to sit in the air conditioning while she looked up directions to the Fitzkee's house where we were going to stay for the next couple days. Heather bought smoothies for Faith and herself since they were pretty hot.
As I looked at the maps for the third day, we were going to be biking near various battlefields and other tourist-type places to visit, and so in the interest of resting a little, I decided we should drive for a ways and then maybe bike in the afternoon.
I've wanted to bike to DC for a while, but there never seemed like a good opportunity to do so. Once we purchased the tandem bike, and started thinking about the possibility of biking all over the country, the Washington trip seemed like a good first step.
The trip did get shorter over time, and originally other people were going to come with us, but everyone backed out at the last minute.
I thought it would be best to start at the highest point of the trail, rather than biking all the way from Pittsburgh, in order to avoid the uphill climb, and also shorten the trip from 334 miles to 207 miles. And to avoid Heather having to drive in downtown DC traffic, I shortened the other end of the trip by 8 miles as well.
As Heather mentioned, it did take us a while to get this post written, but I thought it would be good to have a record of it, so here goes...
Each year for the last several years, Paul has organized a two day bike trip for the kids of BCF. This year, we drove to Rockwood, PA and biked to Cumberland, MD, and then to the Paw Paw Tunnel the second day.
Someone asked what timer we recently purchased, and I figured I should post it here, since it seems to work pretty well. We bought the "Meinor Aqua Flush", I chose this one because it was the only one available at Target while I was buying our third sprinkler (I should do reviews on the sprinklers, since most of them were junk - I don't think the manufacturer can claim 45' x 45' coverage area when it can't do that with a 55psi 10 gal/minute connection. Perhaps they need an * next to that which says, "when connected to a fire hydrant on full blast).
This is going to be woefully brief. The bike trip was adventure after adventure, lots of fun, but lots of work. Among the things you'd normally expect on a bike trip, it included four tire blowouts on the triple-tandem, a torrential downpour, a tent with no stakes, Jonathan riding on someone's back carrier platform for seven miles (and two others each wheeling an extra bike those same extra miles), lost-off-the-top-of-the-car gloves and found again, new tires but now the brakes broke, little or no cell reception, a young man left behind, a purse left in a restaurant. More details? Maybe never, because...
Cycles did not return after the miscarriage, and that along with other symptoms leads me to conclude that I am pregnant again. The due date I am calling March 1. (I don't really think I can count the miscarriage as LMP and I have reason to believe that ovulation was a week later anyway.)
I have mixed feelings about this, I think mostly because of the miscarriage. I am now further along than I was at the miscarriage and I know that God is in control. I guess I hesitate to get too excited. Also, I get exhausted quickly by this little one - maybe it's that I'm just too tired to get excited yet. The boys and Faith (yes, I think she does understand to some degree) are very happy. (Jonathan's first words at my announcement were, "I hope this one doesn't die." Me, too, dear heart.)
Jonathan is hoping for a sister, and Noah a brother. Then Jonathan acknowledges that a brother would be nice, too. For Faith, any baby is great!
6/28 - Noah's fourth birthday! New nephew born! Faith says, "yoo" (balloon)
Some more Faith words: "adj-yih" = chocolate; "nah-nih" = napkin; "ow-dih" = towel; "yeh" = leg
7/2 - Jonathan, "Know what I want to be when I grow up, Mom?" "What?" "An inventor. Actually, I already am an inventor, I just don't have all the right parts."
7/2 -Jonathan, "When Magic Shell ges on a bowl it's stuck like a barnacle."
Two weekends ago when we went camping and sailing, we also got to go on a friend's 25-ft sailboat. It has a cabin and a motor. The wind was lovely that day, but I learned that Noah is our Roger. "When can we use the motor? Let's use the motor! Can we use the motor yet?"
7/4 - Faith, flipping through Go, Dog, Go! : "Ay ha? No!" That is, "Like hat? No!" She repeated this for every page.
7/6 - Faith opened the public bathroom door with her paper towel.